A few words about data confidentiality from Daniel Clary Webb, producer of the Return-to-Love Process™


The Return-to-Love Process™ offers you an opportunity to invest yourself in resolving a troubling situation in an important relationship.  This undoubtedly involves sharing with the process information about your situation, your desired experiences that are threatened or unmet, and more about the relationship.  We respect that!  Your privacy is sacred to our small team.  We've taken pains to enable you as much anonymity as you prefer with one exception -- we must know a valid e-mail address where you can receive messages.  You can create an anonymous e-mail account at Gmail or any number of free e-mail services to prevent us or anyone with access to the system from discovering your identity. 

We secure your information in our database in the most professional, secure hosting environment we know -- Microsoft Azure.

We store an encrypted "hash" of your password in a way that we cannot decrypt.  Our team has built the security structure so it's not possible for anyone to discover your password, even if our system is hacked. 

We will never sell your private information to anyone. 
We will never share your private information with anyone outside our small team. 
We will never use your information to target you with ads or marketing. 
We will never use your information for any purpose other than to support you in your relationships. 

Deepening trust and intimacy in relationships is our sacred mission.  If you are a personal friend of mine, you've observed over the years the diligence with which I've pursued this quest.

We've all become accustomed to a healthy dose of skepticism when we hear high-minded attestations from online services.  We've all heard about data breaches and data leaks.  We've all heard about the ways in which our data is being used to manipulate us.  This concern is especially valid in interactions with any application of artificial intelligence.  Imagine the damage to our reputation if the Return-to-Love Process™ breached confidentiality with you.  We would be appropriately mistrusted and out of business in a heartbeat! 

OUr small team at Open System Applications is committed to the highest standards of data security and data privacy.  We intend to earn your trust ... over time. 

Our system is hosted by Microsoft Azure's cloud service due to its well-earned reputation for data security. 


At present, only one person, I, Daniel Webb, the originator of the concept and lead developer for the application, and two other developers have access to the information you share.  If you know me and use an e-mail address that identifies you, it would be prudent not to share anything with the process that you would not want me to know.  My mission is to make this application as safe for you as for me, my family, and my friends. 

We are currently seeking a third-party security expert to evaluate our security practices, to make recommendations for improvement, and to certify the safety of our application.  Until that review and certification are complete, it would be prudent to assume that the application is not as safe as it will be in the future. 

We are now in the "alpha" stage of development of the process.  I, Dan, intend to read every submission for the purpose of seeing patterns in how people use the process and how well the system's responses are meeting the needs of members.  I have a sacred mission to make this process as safe and effective as possible and to reinforce my reputation for integrity and professionalism.  This process has already benefitted me in my significant relationships in profound ways.  I'm excited to share this with you and to hear how it benefits you and your relationships! 

This is an interactive process.  You tell the process where you are, and the process meets you there.  We, the Open System Applications team, read every feedback post you send us.  We want to improve the process for you specifically as well as for everyone else.  At your request, we may reach out to you if we see an opportunity to support you in unique ways.

So, welcome to our world!  Reviving relationships through collaborative conversation and mindfulness is our thing.  You belong here.


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